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Choosing Your Bridal Headpiece

Saturday, June 5th, 2010

So Many Options!

You’ve selected the perfect wedding gown and now you have to choose a headpiece. With so many options these days, this selection process can be as challenging as finding the right dress. Here are some tips to help make your shopping less stressful.

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Gown and Hair Style Come First

When you’ve selected your gown, be sure to take a photo of you wearing the sample dress. Then head to your hairdresser to decide the best hairstyle to work with your dress, your face and your hair type. This decision is essential in deciding the type of headpiece to buy. Hair combs, vintage-style hats, crowns, tiaras, head bands, flowers and more options are available to you but you want to choose a style that works best with your dress and your hair. Unless you have chosen a very simple dress and you want to add a visual punch, your headpiece should enhance rather than detract from your dress.

Wedding hat with flowers

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What to Wear When Shopping

If you’re shopping for your headpiece in a store other than the bridal salon where you purchased your gown, what you wear when shopping is also important. Wear a white top or dress whose neckline mimics the general style of your gown (strapless, spaghetti straps, portrait neckline, and so forth) so that you’ll have a better sense of how the headpiece will look with your dress. While you don’t necessarily have to have your hair done professionally to go shopping, you should try to achieve a similar affect to how you will be wearing your hair on your wedding day.


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Entangling Attachments

When looking at headpieces, look for details such as loops or straps that will allow you to pin your headpiece securely to your head without detracting from the look. You may even want to try moving about and dancing to make sure that you can comfortably and securely wear the headpiece throughout your long and active wedding day. If you’re wearing a veil, you may want to look for one that can be easily detached for the reception. Too many brides find that they can’t dance comfortably or that their long veil gets caught on jewelry and entangled with guests during their reception.

Use these bridal tips and you’ll look lovely and be comfortable from head to toe on your wedding day.

Bridal Gowns – Go from Simple to Spectacular with Accessories

Friday, April 30th, 2010

Bride in her gown gazing out a windowIt would be wonderful if you had an unlimited budget for any designer gown that you wanted. Unfortunately, most brides are working with a budget smaller than their fantasies. But having a simple gown doesn’t mean that you will not look spectacular with a few creative touches.

The trick is to treat your wedding gown as if it were a little black dress. Think about it. How often have you been able to take your LBD and wear it again again simply because you changed your accessories?

Well you can use this same approach to turn a simple wedding gown into something unique and fabulous with some gorgeous accessories.

Accessorize and Glamorize

Besides the markup for the designer label, the cost of wedding gowns depends greatly on the type and quantity of fabric, the labor and the embellishments. But by using accessories you can glamorize your gown for much less than it would cost to buy a more expensive dress. Best of all, by choosing the accessories you want, you can give your gown your signature style.

The Veil of Embellishment

For instance, if you want a long train, you can easily accomplish this look with a cathedral-length veil instead of the more costly train on a gown. And if you know a seamstress, she can easily create a spectacular veil for what it would cost to buy a more costly gown with a super-long train or to buy a veil at your bridal salon.

Paying someone to make the veil for you will still cost far less than buying your veil from a bridal salon. Best of all, you select the pattern, fabric, ornamentation and a hair comb or headpiece which you can find in fabric or jewelry accessory stores. And you even can have multiple layers of tulle or lace without giving up on style.

You also can have ribbon or lace trim added to your gown, as well as having appliqués attached and sequins affixed to your dress which are usually simply done with fabric glue or simple stitches.
Gold and Pearl Clasps and Bracelots

Clutches, Clasps and Jewels

Instead of carrying a large bouquet of flowers, carry a custom personalized bridal purse to show off your individual flair. It’s pretty, unique and a practical alternative to a bouquet.

A rhinestone broach will add sparkle to your dress and gorgeous clip-on earrings, pins or adornments made for this purpose can dress up even the most basic wedding shoes. If you purchase a dress with simple classic form and style, you can buy a pair of spectacular shoes.

With a little effort and planning, you’re simple gown will look simply spectacular.

If you have not purchased a gown, you may want to read our tips about how to buy your wedding gown at the Rocky Mountain Bride magazine where I make regular blog posts.

Wedding Invitation Response Cards – What Do You Do If Guests Don’t RSVP?

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

Decorative Wedding Invitation and Envelop

While it’s rude, it’s not unusual to find that many guests don’t send in their RSVP.

Many guests wrongly assume that you will just know that they wouldn’t miss your wedding. Others will assume that if they don’t respond, you’ll know that they can’t attend.

While it’s frustrating for guests to think that you’re a psychic and can predict their plans, one of the worse things you can do is to make assumptions about their attendance. You must directly get in touch with any guests who didn’t RSVP.

Yes, an e-mail might be easier but you must take the time to call and speak with them personally. Simply state, “Your RSVP never arrived and I have to call the caterer with my final guest count so I need to know if you’re attending my wedding.”

Yes, your guests were inconsiderate not to respond, but it’s much better to take the time to call them and find out their attendance status rather than have them arrive at your wedding unannounced, without a seat, and possibly without enough food. It would be equally bad to have to pay for guests who never planned to attend.

What will you do if some of your guests leave your RSVP’s  unanswered? Please add your thoughts with a comment below.

How Do I Choose What My Bridesmaids Should Wear?

Saturday, April 17th, 2010

Bride and BridesmaidsWhen deciding what your bridesmaids and maid of honor will wear at your wedding, you need to take several factors into consideration.

The Sensitive Issue of Price

It’s best to choose styles that fall into a price range that would be comfortable for everyone. Remember, they also have to pay for their shoes, contribute to your wedding shower, buy gifts and so forth.

Styles For Everyone

Unless you have a collection of cookie-cutter bridesmaids, chances are you’re going to have people who will vary greatly in height and shape. Therefore, you should either go with a simple A-line design that’s flattering on virtually everyone or choose a designer or manufacturer who has a line of dresses that can be ordered in the same fabric. Another option would be to choose a selection of separates so your bridesmaids can choose pieces that suit her body best.

Colors For Anyone

You may have your heart set on a lime green, neon orange or another unusual shade as your wedding color but many shades don’t suit all skin types. Instead, select a neutral shade for the bridal attendant dresses and accent them with your chosen wedding colors on accessories such as bridesmaids bags, flowers or jewelry.

Do you agree with our suggestions? What else is important to you? Please add a comment below!

Wedding Emergency Kit – What You Should Bring to Your Wedding

Monday, April 12th, 2010

You never want it to happen but it’s often the case that something unexpected will go wrong at your wedding. But with a little preparation, a cool head and a sense of humor, you can handle whatever emergency comes up. Here are things you can carry in your wedding tote or have someone else bring them to combat any sudden problems.

  • Medicine (antacid tablets, smelling salts, aspirin, acetaminophen, any medicines you or the groom would take on a regular basis
  • Makeup, deodorant along with tissues and/or handkerchiefs
  • Comfortable shoes (ballet slippers, flats or low heels)
  • Hair products (curling iron, hairdryer, comb, brush, hair spray, hair pins)
  • Straight and safety pins, tape, scissors and sewing kit
  • Cell phone, charger, and pertinent contact information for everyone involved with your wedding
  • White liquid shoe polish (to cover stains on shoes and occasionally gowns)
  • Stain remover and chalk (to help cover stains on your gown)
  • Clear nail polish (to stop runs in stockings and to affix items like rhinestones)
  • Baby powder (for shoes and to keep you dry)
  • Black magic marker (for the groom’s shoes)
  • Cash, checkbook and credit or debit card
  • Extra seating chart and extra set of vows
  • Vendor contracts
  • Breath mints or mouthwash and hard candy (to combat low blood sugar and dry mouth)
  • First aid kit (especially Band-Aids)



If looking for more suggestions, just check out our second list of items for your bridal emergency kit. Do these suggestions cover all of your needs? If not, please add items in a comment below!

5 Tips for Choosing Your Bridal Attendants

Friday, April 9th, 2010

Bridesmaids and Flower Girls

Take your time and use these five tips to choose your ideal bridal party to reduce your stress and save your relationships.

  1. Just because you were once close but are out of constant contact now, there’s no reason to feel guilty about not asking someone to be in your wedding party.
  2. Wait to ask people to be in your bridal party no less than a year before you’re to be married so you know you’ll still be close to them on your wedding day.
  3. If one of your best friends is a man, feel free to ask him to stand up with you as an attendant or bridesman.
  4. Whether you opt to go with a family-members-only wedding party (saving the stress of choosing from a large group of friends) or you decide on a different set of criteria, make a plan for choosing your bridesmaids or a wedding party members and stick to it.
  5. If you have close friends or family members who aren’t in your bridal party, find other honorary acts they can perform on your wedding day to let them know you think of them as special.

Do you have wise tips to for brides or bridesmaids in the wedding party? Please add a comment below.

Planning a Preview of Your Wedding Look

Monday, April 5th, 2010

Testing Your Wedding Style during a night on the town

These days most brides hire a hairstylist and a makeup artist to make them look their absolute best on their wedding day. And most experts agree that you should have a practice session with your stylists to make sure that your hair and makeup turns out the way that you want it to for your wedding so you have time for any adjustments to your style.

And while many brides will follow this excellent advice, they often schedule this “dress rehearsal” for a week or two before their wedding without any plans to show off their gorgeous look that evening. However, there’s no reason that this practice session can’t take place when you already have a special event planned for later that day.

Whether it’s for a friend’s wedding, a night out on the town or a romantic evening for you and your fiancé, make the most of the money spent with your “glam squad” by scheduling your preview to coincide with another special occasion.

We are happy to share your thoughts or answer your questions. Do you have a hair or makeup stylist tip to share? Please add a comment below.