Posts Tagged ‘bridesmaids’

Wedding Traditions and Their Meanings – Part 4

Saturday, May 29th, 2010
Woman's Corset - circa 1878

Woman's Corset, Circa 1878, Wikipedia

Tying the Knot

This expression came from the time when brides wore corsets which were tied in the back with many knots leaving it to the groom to undo the knots of her corset so that the marriage could be consummated.

Leap Year Proposals

Hundreds of years ago, under British law, February 29th had no legal significance. It was a day that was “leapt over” and consequently leap year was “born.”

Since the day wasn’t officially recognized, people came to believe that common social rules were to be ignored on that day. So unmarried women who had no likely prospects in their future could take matters into their own hands and propose marriage to the man of their choice.

1908 Postcard of Clara be Careful during Leap Year Snatch

Be Careful, Clara, that's a Fine Specimen, Circa 1908, Wikipedia

Bridal Attendants For Good Luck

The concept of bridal attendants stems back to a superstitious time many years ago when the bride and her female friends and family members would dress alike to confuse evil spirits who might try to attack or snatch away the bride since she was believed to be filled with good spirits and good luck on her wedding day.

Today, while the bride now traditionally wears white, her attendants often still dress in the same color and/or attire.

Diamond Engagement Ring

Are Wedding or Engagement Rings Returnable?

Thousands of years ago during the reign of the Romans, an engagement ring or wedding band was used as a “down payment” by the groom to show that he was legally promising to marry a young woman and therefore it served to “bind” the marriage contract.

Other cultures may use similar symbols but with different origins or meanings. What other traditions or versions of these traditions have you heard? Do you have any old bridal tips to share?

Wedding Planning – 5 Common Mistakes and How to Avoid Them

Tuesday, April 27th, 2010

Wedding Planner Writing in Her Calendar

  1. Not Planning Enough Time
  2. Assume that everything will take you two to three times longer than you think. You’ll need a minimum of six months to a year or more to guarantee you have enough time to get everything done.

  3. Waiting to Set Your Guest List
  4. Your guest list should be the first thing that you decide. You may even want to set up your list in tiers – the “must attend” guests, the “it would be nice to invite” guests and the “if we have room and/or money” guests.

  5. Not Doing Your Homework
  6. Research how much things are going to cost. Since prices vary greatly by location, you may find that the prices quoted in magazines, even regional ones, are not realistic to what you will actually have to spend. Shop online and make phone calls to vendors to get approximate prices.

  7. Setting an Unrealistic Budget
  8. Depending on your vision, guest list, and overall budget, chances are excellent that you are going to have to make cuts in some places. Plan a detailed budget and try to stick to it. But if you spend more on one item, remember to cut on another so you don’t start off your marriage unnecessarily owing money.

  9. Not Being Flexible
  10. You’ve watched the wedding TV shows and clipped photos from bridal magazines, but if you aren’t flexible and realistic in your own plans with your allotted budget, you’re going to be disappointed. Bending your plans as necessary will make for a much happier wedding day.

    Do you have a to do that we left undone? Please add your ideas . . . we wouldn’t want to leave something unsaid and therefore undone!

5 Tips for Choosing Your Bridal Attendants

Friday, April 9th, 2010

Bridesmaids and Flower Girls

Take your time and use these five tips to choose your ideal bridal party to reduce your stress and save your relationships.

  1. Just because you were once close but are out of constant contact now, there’s no reason to feel guilty about not asking someone to be in your wedding party.
  2. Wait to ask people to be in your bridal party no less than a year before you’re to be married so you know you’ll still be close to them on your wedding day.
  3. If one of your best friends is a man, feel free to ask him to stand up with you as an attendant or bridesman.
  4. Whether you opt to go with a family-members-only wedding party (saving the stress of choosing from a large group of friends) or you decide on a different set of criteria, make a plan for choosing your bridesmaids or a wedding party members and stick to it.
  5. If you have close friends or family members who aren’t in your bridal party, find other honorary acts they can perform on your wedding day to let them know you think of them as special.

Do you have wise tips to for brides or bridesmaids in the wedding party? Please add a comment below.