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Wedding Traditions and Their Meanings – Part 4

Saturday, May 29th, 2010
Woman's Corset - circa 1878

Woman's Corset, Circa 1878, Wikipedia

Tying the Knot

This expression came from the time when brides wore corsets which were tied in the back with many knots leaving it to the groom to undo the knots of her corset so that the marriage could be consummated.

Leap Year Proposals

Hundreds of years ago, under British law, February 29th had no legal significance. It was a day that was “leapt over” and consequently leap year was “born.”

Since the day wasn’t officially recognized, people came to believe that common social rules were to be ignored on that day. So unmarried women who had no likely prospects in their future could take matters into their own hands and propose marriage to the man of their choice.

1908 Postcard of Clara be Careful during Leap Year Snatch

Be Careful, Clara, that's a Fine Specimen, Circa 1908, Wikipedia

Bridal Attendants For Good Luck

The concept of bridal attendants stems back to a superstitious time many years ago when the bride and her female friends and family members would dress alike to confuse evil spirits who might try to attack or snatch away the bride since she was believed to be filled with good spirits and good luck on her wedding day.

Today, while the bride now traditionally wears white, her attendants often still dress in the same color and/or attire.

Diamond Engagement Ring

Are Wedding or Engagement Rings Returnable?

Thousands of years ago during the reign of the Romans, an engagement ring or wedding band was used as a “down payment” by the groom to show that he was legally promising to marry a young woman and therefore it served to “bind” the marriage contract.

Other cultures may use similar symbols but with different origins or meanings. What other traditions or versions of these traditions have you heard? Do you have any old bridal tips to share?