Monograms: Modern & Magical!

By Mary Brophy


Are you looking for a unique way to modernize and add a theme to your wedding day? Consider creating a unique monogram and using it to punctuate various elements of your wedding day. This creative touch can be an elegant way to personalize different aspects of your celebration.

Creating a Monogram

A monogram is typically made up of three letters: the bride's first name initial, the groom's first name initial, and the first letter of their shared last name. For example, the monogram of Sarah and Brendon Chase would be S-C-B. You may choose to use a variation of block and cursive letters. Play with the sizes – for the example above, you may choose to make the C bold and prominent while the other two letters are slightly more delicate. Typically, the bride's first initial comes first. If the bride is choosing to keep her own last name, you may consider a four-letter monogram. Or, to simplify things, just use your first initials and have a trendy, simple two-letter monogram.

Your monogram can be a combination of letters, swirls, and various design elements – it all depends on your personal sense of style and the feel of your wedding day. It is essentially a "logo" of sorts for your wedding – so make it as funky, elegant, classic, or fun as you are! If you're getting married at a unique location, such as a beach, consider integrating a sea shell or palm tree in to your monogram.

You and your fiancé may be able to create your own monogram, or visit a graphic designer who can create something unique just for you. There are also a number of websites that specialize in creating monograms and a wedding tote featuring your monogram. Or maybe someone in the wedding party had an artistic flare or a knack for graphic design – they will likely be pleased to contribute.

Let Your Monogram Shine!

Now that you've created a monogram you love, you can work on thinking of creative ways to enhance your wedding day with it! Most couples with monograms decide to include their work of art on all written communications, so consider adding it to your invitations, envelopes, RSVP cards, and programs. You can even get a stamp or a gold seal made out of your emblem for a touch of old-world class.

You can create an entire theme around your motif by having it printed on everything from napkins to table cloths. Your baker can create a stunning cake with your monogram as part of the design. Include your monogram on your guest book, and even have it adorn your ribbon if you like.

Consider special ordering a cake topper designed just for you, or using your monogram to embellish gifts for the guests, such as cookies, wine bottles, or personalized jellies.

You can take this theme as far as you like – or keep it more understated by reserving monogram use for only a few key items like bridal bags.

After The Wedding

Your monogram can become a family crest of sorts – consider giving your partner a bathrobe with your new family monogram embroidered on the pocket as a post-wedding gift. Your monogram can grow with you over the years – and one day may even include a few more names.